i was hoping that some one could help me with this one...
Why do men feel the need to max out the credit card and buy shit we really don't need/can't afford. my fiance wants to buy everything he can get his hands on and we are in so much debt its going to take us a very long time to get out of it, yet he can't control his spending habbits. And then its woman who get the blame, i haven't use the credit card at all, yet i'm the one who paid it off the last time. all the men in my life are the same with money they aren't happy unless they have it. what i want to know is why do they need money to be happy?
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- 2007-05-30 @ 13:01:59
jackdaw

Hi P-Nut, not all men are that bad, but I will say I have been in your position once before and it sucked.
My personal opinion is CUT THE DAMN THING UP!!!
I got into shit streak with an access card, cos you think hey, I can pay it off next month, next month comes and what a surprise, your in the same position as last month except you have just used your card again - so you end up paying the minimum every month costing you a fortune.
Best advise I can give is save first for the things you want or don't want, whatever takes your fancy, or use a visa which takes it directly out of your account but "CUT THE DAMN THING UP"
"I KNOW I AM WAFFLING ON A BIT BUT PLEASE TAKE NOTE, THE ONLY ONE A CREDIT CARD HELPS IS THE BANK WHO ISSUED IT"
Jack x x